Why Parents Have More Chance To Attract Luck : 5 Tips from Kotaro Hisui

Stressful Always?

In the whirlwind of parenting, it’s easy to forget about happiness. We all hear that happy vibes attract good luck, but keeping that joy alive can be tough—especially with constant interruptions and a never-ending to-do list. Kids are unpredictable, and that can sometimes leave us feeling frustrated or even drained.

However, as a parent of an adult daughter, I’ve come to believe that parents actually have a greater chance of keeping those happy vibes going—maybe more than we realize.

5 Insights from a Japanese Spiritual Coach

Popular spiritual coach and bestselling author Kotaro Hisui shares powerful ideas that can help you reconnect with happiness. Here are five of his tips, along with my personal take on how they can support parents. These simple shifts in perspective can bring more lightness, clarity, and joy to your journey:

1. Acknowledge and Appreciate What You Have

The first step toward cultivating happiness is to notice what you already have. It’s easy to dwell on what’s missing, but by pausing to appreciate the small moments—a smile from your child, the peaceful look on their sleeping face, or a lighthearted conversation—you can uplift your emotional state in countless everyday scenes with your children. As Dostoevsky once said, “The reason people are unhappy is that they do not know they are happy.”

2. Celebrate Yourself

As parents, we often forget to relish our own achievements. It's crucial to praise yourself for the hard work you put into parenting. Whether it’s mastering a new recipe, completing a challenging task, or simply making it through a hectic day, acknowledging your efforts is meaningful and boosts happiness. Eric Barker wrote on Time magazine: a happy parent tends to raise happier children.

3. Release Guilt and Forgive Yourself

Every parent makes mistakes; this is an essential part of the journey. According to Hisui, carrying guilt only attracts negativity into your life. Learn to forgive yourself and let go of blame. Accepting that you are doing your best can free you from the weight of expectations and promote a lighter, more joyful mindset.

4. Trust in Your Own Path

Hisui emphasizes the importance of believing in your own self-axis. This means trusting your instincts and choices as a parent. Every family is unique, and there’s no one-size-fits-all approach. Embrace your parenting style and stay true to what works for your family, fostering a sense of confidence and fulfillment.

5. Have Faith in a Higher Power

Finally, placing trust in God or the universe can offer a deep sense of comfort and peace. Letting go of the need to control everything and having faith that life will unfold as it’s meant to can ease much of the stress we carry. I believe any higher power holds special blessings—and deep respect—for those who dedicate themselves to nurturing the next generation. Parents, especially, deserve a guiding force to support them through life’s challenges.

As a parent, I can relate to the struggles of complaining and feeling frustrated. During those years, my life stagnated as my negativity often attracted unfortunate circumstances. Kotaro Hisui's principles tell that happiness is a choice. He says you don’t have to practice all of his five hints. It’s up to your personality. Explore these tips and select those that resonate with you; they may just help to brighten your parenting journey, surely attracting good luck!