The Power of Parenting: Tortures are the Golden Ticket to your Creative Success

POST-PARENTAL SUCCESS

2/6/20252 min read

a man and woman kissing in a field of yellow flowers
a man and woman kissing in a field of yellow flowers

Embracing the Challenges of Parenthood

As a creator, it's easy to feel overshadowed by peers who seem to thrive financially and attract larger fan bases. Many of us find ourselves behind similar creators in the race for success. I, a composer, used to be questioning “ I could have done more in stead of changing diapers (and so on)”. However, amidst these uncertainties, there exists a profound lesson in the journey of parenting. Raising children not only offers a unique perspective on life but also catalyzes personal growth and resilience.

Building Thick Skin Through Parenting

When you step into the role of a parent, you quickly learn that resilience becomes second nature. As children grow and interact with the world, they face evaluations and judgments from peers, teachers, and society at large. As a parent, you often find yourself in a position where you must defend and support your child against critical comments.

This experience cultivates a thick skin and an unshakeable belief in their abilities. Similarly, this acquired strength can serve as a powerful tool in the world of creativity. As artists, writers, and musicians, we regularly encounter criticism and feedback. However, those who embrace the journey of parenting are uniquely equipped to face these challenges head-on. Our belief in our children’s potential transforms into an unwavering confidence in our own creative ideals, allowing us to pursue our passions despite the noise.

Monetizing Creativity in Today’s Landscape

In recent years, artists have access to numerous channels for monetizing their work and building a fan base. Platforms like social media, streaming services, and crowdfunding have democratized the creative industry, allowing creators to connect directly with audiences. Unlike before, unlike my younger age, navigating the world of art, music, or writing no longer rests solely on traditional gatekeepers.

With these advancements, your creativity can flourish, complemented by an enthusiastic community that values your work. As a parent, you may find parallels between growing your child's talents and nurturing your own artistic skills. Harnessing the lessons learned through parenting, such as adaptability and management foresight, can enhance your approach to maximum creativity and generating income from your creative endeavors.

In conclusion, while it’s natural to feel behind in the race for creative success, the invaluable experiences of parenting nurture qualities that propel you closer to your goals. By believing in yourself as fiercely as you believe in your children, you can develop the resilience necessary for navigating the ups and downs of the creative landscape. Your path may be different, and the journey could be fraught with challenges, but that thick skin you’ve cultivated will be your greatest asset in achieving your dreams.